Genesis 29

 

Genesis 29:1-30 – Jacob’s Love for Rachel

Isaac had sent Jacob away to escape the wrath of his brother and to find a wife among his mother’s people.  So Jacob left and came to the land of Paddan Aram.  He saw shepherds in the field watering their flocks from a well.  There he saw Rachel.  She was very beautiful and it seemed He loved her at first sight.  Remember in Genesis 24 Jacob’s mother, Rebekah was at a well where she gave water to Abraham’s servant and his camels; soon after Rebekah left with the servant to marry Isaac. 

Jacob was overcome with emotion and kissed Rachel and wept with tears of joy.  He had come to the end of his journey and found his mother’s family.  He told her he was a relative of her father and the son of Rebekah.  She ran and told her father Laban.  Laban probably remembered the wealth he received from Abraham’s servant when he let Rebekah be taken to be Isaac’s wife, but Jacob came with nothing.  He saw an opportunity to exploit Jacob, but knew he would inherit a great fortune.  So Laban invited Jacob to stay in his home probably hoping he would marry one of his daughters, Leah or Rachel.  Jacob asked to marry Rachel, but Laban took advantage of him and had him work for 7 years first.    

After the 7 years Laban arranged the wedding, but Laban was deceitful and gave him Leah, the oldest daughter instead.  The bride wore a veil as was the custom and Jacob didn’t realize that it was Leah he had married.  When he did realize it, he asked Laban why he had deceived him.  Laban explained that it was the custom for the oldest daughter to be given in marriage before the youngest.  Laban unfairly forced Jacob to continue working for him 7 more years for Rachel.  Jacob loved Rachel so much that he agreed.  When the time was up, Jacob married Rachel.  Now he had 2 wives and each wife had a maid.  Just because something is recorded in scripture doesn’t make it God’s will.  With many wives there is always conflict and jealousy.

I think Leah was probably in on the deception.  She was a plain woman and probably had no prospects for a husband.  She may have thought this was her only chance.  I’m sure it was not Rachel’s choice.  She had to go along with it, because Laban was her father and she had to obey.

Remember Jacob had deceived his father and cheated his brother.  Jacob reaped what he had sown.  He deceived Esau out of his birthright.  He deceived Isaac to receive his blessing.  Now he was getting a dose of his own medicine.  God can forgive sin, but sin still has consequences.  Our disobedience may not stop God’s plan but it will greatly affect how we end up experiencing it.  Working so long for someone like Laban will teach many lessons.  Through all this Jacob learned patience, discipline, responsibility, to endure hardship, and to wait on God’s timing.

Do you ever feel like Jacob? 

Do you feel stuck in your job or your marriage?

How have you seen the consequences of a past sin?

God was with Jacob the whole time.  God had a purpose for him and He has a purpose for you.  God is with you the whole time.  You may not have to wait 14 years or maybe you will wait even longer.  No matter how long it takes things will change.  God is with you.  Jacob’s self-sacrificing love for Rachel is an illustration of Jesus’ self-sacrificing for us.  We are his bride.

Principle:  God is always working to accomplish His will.

Genesis 29:31-35 – God’s Love for Leah

 God watched over Jacob and his family as He had promised.  Jacob never really loved Leah, but accepted her as his wife.  When God saw that Leah was unloved, He showed compassion and helped her to have several children.  She had 4 sons:  Reuben, Simeon, and Levi, Judah.  Leah grew in faith with the births of her sons.  God comforted her through her children.  She is known as the mother of Israel, because through her son Judah’s line would come Jesus.

If you are living unloved, God knows your pain.  God loves you no matter what.  Leah turned to God and found faith and praised God in her pain.  This is a lesson for you.  Are you turning to God, counting your blessing and praising Him in what you do have?

Principle:  God will develop our character through personal hardships as we trust in Him.

How is God disciplining you?

What longing would you be willing to surrender to God in your Pain?

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Genesis 28

Jacob Meets God at Bethel

Jacob had to leave home to escape the wrath of Esau.  Though Jacob didn’t deserve it, Isaac blessed Jacob before he left with the same blessing that God gave Abraham that his descendants would be numerous and they would receive the promised land of Canaan.  Isaac told him not to marry a Canaanite woman, but to go to Paddon Aram to the house of his mother’s brother, Laban and to take a wife there.

Esau learned that Isaac had blessed Jacob and was told not to take a Canaanite as a wife. Esau realized how displeasing the Canaanites were to Isaac so he tried to please his father by not marring a Canaanite.  Instead he married a woman from the family of his uncle Ishmael.  This was his second marriage.  He really didn’t understand God’s plan.  Maybe he didn’t want to understand.

Jacob probably felt guilty by cheating his brother.  He lied to his old blind father and used the name of God and even kissed him in his deception.  In spite of all that he was sent off with the true spiritual blessing from his grandfather, Abraham.  Now he is on his own facing an anxious and uncertain future.  God begins working on Jacob.

Are you at a place where you see your great need for God?

Are you like Jacob, out of schemes?

Are you feeling guilty about your past and uncertain about your future?

Jacob traveled east to the region where his mother Rebekah was raised.  He had no money and no friends.  He slept outside with no comforts of home and used a stone as his pillow.  During his journey he had a dream where God spoke to him.  This was a life-changing experience for Jacob.  In his dream he saw a latter going up to heaven with angels going up and down.  Above it stood the Lord, “I am the Lord, the God of your Abraham and the God of Isaac.  I will give you and your descendants the land on which you are lying.  Your descendants will be like the dust of the earth…..All peoples on earth will be blessed through you and your offspring.  I am with you and will watch over you where ever you go, and I will bring you back to this land.  I will not leave you until I have done what I have promised.” – Gen. 28:13-15.

He understood this dream as God breaking into his life.  He saw there was access to heaven which made God closer than ever before.  In John 1:51, Jesus made it clear that He was the access to heaven.  “I tell you the truth, you shall see heaven open, and the angels of God ascending and descending on the Son of Man.”  It’s through Him that heaven comes down to us and by which we can go to heaven.  Jesus is the ladder.  “I am they way and the truth and the life.  No one comes to the Father except through me.” – John 14:6.  God gave the same promises that He had given Abraham and Isaac.  Can you imagine how those words must have hit Jacob after all he had done? 

God always deals with us in grace.  When He breaks into your life, it’s not your doing, it’s His.  He is the initiator and comes to you.  He chose you.  It’s up to you to reject or accept Him.

God doesn’t say a word about Jacob’s failure.  Instead He assured him about his future.  Jacob promised that he, too, would serve God.  That’s why we call God the “God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob”.  Jacob really wanted this blessing even though he used wrong methods to get it.  God gives His blessings where He wants and to whom He wants.  We cannot earn it.

Principle:  God meets us where we are and leads us to Himself.

Have you experienced God pursuing you as a sinner? 

How has He shown you love? 

Can you say I’ve been redeemed? 

What is God revealing to you about Himself? 

Are you willing to sacrifice yourself for Him? 

How do you feel about Jacob getting blessings after he lied 5 times?  He didn’t deserve the blessings, but none of us deserve the blessings we get either.

Jacob got up in the morning and took a pillar of stone and poured oil on it.  He worshipped God and called that place Bethel and then made a vow to God.  (Gen. 281:20-22)  Some think he didn’t really understand God’s grace and made a conditional vow to God in response when he said, “If God will be with me and will watch over me…” – Gen. 28:20.  Others say the “If” mean “Since” God is doing this for me, I will do this for Him.  God’s promises to Jacob were all unconditional.  Even if Jacob was making a conditional vow, God didn’t take His promises back.  God let His promises stand and kept working on Jacob.  Thank God He deals with us on unconditional terms.

Was Jacob acting immature?  Was he trying to bargain with God?  He doesn’t act like he’s aware of any of his sins, let alone confess them.  It almost sounds like his focus is on himself and not on God.  Maybe he’s bargaining like he did with Esau to get his birthright.   I think he should have responded with praise and thanksgiving.

Have you ever bargained with God?

Is your faith conditional on what God can do for you?

How is God calling you to fully trust Him?

Are you holding back?  If so, why?

Some say Jacob put too much emphasis on the particular place.  For God to fulfill His promises to Jacob and to us, God had to be in every place.

Jacob promised to tithe in Gen. 28:22.  Jacob’s offering to tithe is his way of accepting the Lord’s Kingship over him.  He had faith that God would supply and that he vowed to be loyal and submit to the Lord as his King and God.  Tithing of income for Christians is a way of demonstrating our allegiance, our love, and that we serve God rather than money (Matt. 6:24).  All we have is God’s anyway.  It’s an indicator that we trust God and are committed to Him.  So it was for Jacob.

How do you show God you are committed to Him?

Do you tithe part of your income?

What about tithing of your time?

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Genesis 27

 

Genesis 27: 1-29 – Deception in the Family

Isaac was getting old and believed he was close to death and wanted to settle his affairs.  His eyes were weak and he could no longer see.  He turned his eyes from God.  He focused on what he wanted in the flesh.  Esau was his favorite son so he planned a secret meeting with Esau telling him to go and kill some game for him to eat and he would give him a blessing before he died.  Isaac was determined to pass the blessing to Esau despite what the Lord said when the boys were in the womb, “the older would serve the younger”.  Remember Esau had already sold his birthright to Jacob for a bowl of soup.  The birthright belonged to Jacob with or without the deceit.  Esau had sold it to him and sealed the deal with an oath.  Esau was about to receive a blessing to which he had no right. 

Rebekah heard this and planned a scheme of her own.  She wanted her younger son Jacob not to miss out on Isaac’s blessing.  So she and Jacob planned to pretend that Jacob was Esau and Isaac would bless Jacob instead.  Rebekah is the instigator and Jacob is the accomplice.  Jacob tells one lie after another.  The last one is the worst when he was asked by Isaac how he found the foods quickly.  Jacob said, “The Lord your God gave me success.” – Gen. 27:20. 

Rebekah’s motivation for scheming was her unbelief.  She panicked and didn’t trust that God would fulfill what He had promises in Gen 25:23.  She didn’t pray, but took matters into her own hands.  God will not bless you for wrong doing to achieve good.  God’s blessing of Jacob was because He chose him to inherit the promises not by Rebekah and Jacob’s deception. 

The whole family suffered because of these deceptions.  The whole family didn’t trust each other and they didn’t trust God.  They all schemed and plotted against each other and against God.  Jacob suffered because he had to leave home in fear of his life.  Rebekah suffered because she would not see her son again.  Isaac could have given his blessing over and over, but it only mattered if God honored it.  They worked against God, but God still accomplished His purpose.

Have you ever panicked like Rebekah and took matters into your own hands instead of waiting on God?

Genesis 27:30-46 – Division in the Family

Isaac blessed Jacob thinking it was Esau.  He wasn’t thinking about God’s promise being fulfilled.  He ignored God’s Word.  Esau came in from hunting and Isaac realized who he had really blessed.  Verse 33 says “Isaac trembled violently”.  Isaac knew nothing could stop the plan of God.  He had made a mess with his own desires.  When Esau found out about the deception and asked if Isaac had a blessing for him, too.  “His father Isaac answered him, ‘Your dwelling will be away from the earth’s richness, away from the dew of heaven above.  You will live by the sword and you will serve your brother.  But when you grow restless, you will throw his yoke from off your neck.’” – Gen. 27:39-40.

Have you ever been deceived by someone? 

How did you handle it?

Have you forgiven those who have wronged you?  Life is not always fair, but God is.  Trust in His sovereignty.

Even though Isaac messed up, he was a man who loved God.  He blessed his two sons even though the blessings were not what he had planned.  They were as God had planned.  Isaac was grieved by the deception, but accepted what happened.  Can you do the same?  God is in control.  We can trust in that.

Esau regretted selling his birthright and missing the blessings.  Isaac regrets that he blessed Jacob instead of Esau, but he repented when he realized that that was God’s will.

Differences between regret and repentance (taken from https://kathycollardmiller.com)

Regret focuses on my outward behavior; Repentance focuses on my heart motives.

Regret is sorry I got caught; Repentance is glad I got caught.

Regret is motivated by the pain of consequences; Repentance is motivated by causing grieving of the Holy Spirit.

Regret wants to hide my sin; Repentance wants to be exposed and cleansed.

Regret is defensive and resists asking for forgiveness; Repentance takes full responsibility and asks for forgiveness.

Regret blames others; Repentance focuses only on myself.

Regret only changes enough for the appearance of image; Repentance continues to examine my life and be honest.

Regret downplays the sin; Repentance fully admits the sin.

Regret is embarrassed because my image is marred; Repentance is grieved for the pain my sin caused others.

Regret leaves open the door for further sinning; Repentance seeks the Spirit’s full power to fully change.

Regret is motivated by the pain of consequences; Repentance wants to be exposed

Isaac surrendered to God.  He reconfirmed his blessing to Jacob and gave a limited blessing to Esau.  He told Esau that he would live by the sword and life would not be easy.  He would serve Jacob, but it would not forever.  

Esau hated Jacob.  He was full of pride and envy, because his brother would enjoy greater prosperity.  He wanted to kill Jacob.  Rebekah told Jacob to run to his uncle, Laban in Haran to stay with him for a while until Esau’s anger passed.  It turned out that he stayed more than 20 years.

Rebekah was worried that Jacob would marry a Canaanite woman while he was there, so Isaac told him not to marry a Canaanite.  Instead he was to go to his own people for a wife.  When Esau heard that the daughters of Canaan did not please Isaac, so he went to Ishmael and married from among his family in addition to the wives he already had.  Remember Ishmael’s first wife was an Egyptian.  Esau did this for just for spite. (Gen. 28:1-9)

Lessons/Principles: 

When we seek our own way, we never get what we wanted and we pay a high price. 

Sin always promises more than it delivers and costs more than we imagine.

Actions have consequences.

Deception can cause separation between family members.

The results of deception can hurt others and last for years.

Despite our sins, we can expect grace and forgiveness when we repent.

God uses broken people to bring about His will.

God is sovereign and we can’t stop His ultimate purpose.

God is faithful and keeps His promises.

How do you describe your faith?

Are you suborn or submissive?

Jacob received Isaac’s blessings but by methods that were dishonest and he left Canaan with few possessions.  He received an even better blessing.  The blessing he received really came from God.  God himself spoke to Jacob as we will see in Genesis 28.

Hebrews 11 commends Abraham and Isaac for how they submitted to God.  They are not remembered for their mistakes just as God does not remember ours.

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